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How to Be the Second Shooter Everyone Wants to Hire with Jasmine Ortiz

by D'Arcy Benincosa

How to Be the Second Shooter Everyone Wants to Hire with Jasmine Ortiz on the Play It Brave podcast with D'Arcy Benincosa

Ever wondered what it really takes to become a second shooter that lead photographers rave about—or how to find one you can trust with your name, brand, and reputation?

In this candid and wisdom-packed episode, I sit down with award-winning photographer and my own second shooter, Jasmine Ortiz, to dive deep into the art, etiquette, and energy of second shooting in the luxury wedding world.

With over 200 weddings under her belt, Jasmine brings a decade’s worth of insight into what it means to support lead photographers with professionalism, humility, and heart. From high-pressure moments and awkward vendor run-ins to gear checklists and social media boundaries, we don’t hold back in this conversation. We swap stories, laugh through horror moments (please don’t pitch yourself to the planner during cocktail hour), and unpack the subtle dynamics that can make or break a working relationship on the wedding day.

Whether you’re a new photographer hoping to break into the wedding industry, a seasoned second looking to elevate your presence, or a lead ready to build your dream team, this episode is full of real talk and practical gold.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What NOT to do as a second shooter (like drinking on the job)
  • How to match a lead’s style and energy so you complement—not compete
  • Why gear prep, clear communication, and a calm presence matter more than you think
  • How to navigate photographing grooms and groomsmen as a female second shooter
  • What to avoid when posting online—and why it’s essential to wait and ask for permission first
  • How to energetically show up in service, not self-promotion
  • Why building trust, humility, and team spirit will get you hired again and again

Jasmine also shares her favorite behind-the-scenes moment as a second shooter, how she handles fast-moving situations with grace, and why her second shooter checklist has become her wedding-day go-to.

And of course, Jasmine and I reflect on our own working relationship—from Target snack runs to shared values—and how much fun it can be when the lead/second synergy is just right.

This is more than just a how-to episode. It’s a heartfelt look into the power of being a solid, grounded, and generous support on a couple’s most important day.

Meet Jasmine

Jasmine Ortiz is an internationally-renowned wedding photographer based in California. She made a name for herself masterfully documenting irreplaceable moments and polished celebrations. She was named one of the “Top 30 Wedding Photographers in the USA” in 2023 and has photographed well over 200 weddings in her decade-long career.

Get Jasmine’s Second Shooter Checklist here
Jasmine’s Website
Jasmine’s Instagram

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