The 20-Year Age Gap Between Me and My Man

In this intimate and heart-opening episode, D’Arcy sits down with her partner, Tyler, for their first-ever podcast conversation together. What unfolds is a raw, funny, and deeply honest look into the real work of love—what it takes to build a conscious relationship, navigate hard seasons, and grow as individuals and a couple.

They share the story of their romance, from meeting at a retreat in 2023 to reconnecting after a breakup in 2024, and everything in between. From mismatched attachment styles to breakdowns in communication, D’Arcy and Tyler don’t shy away from the truth: relationships can be hard, but they can also be healing.

Expect big laughs, real talk, and some wildly endearing moments (like Tyler referring to himself as D’Arcy’s “Renaissance bad boy”). They talk about what brought them back together after months apart, the work they did individually, and what keeps them choosing each other daily. You’ll hear about D’Arcy’s solo journey to India and Bali, Tyler’s growth in therapy, and the practices that are helping them build a more secure, connected partnership.

They also touch on:

• How their age difference affects their relationship
• What it’s really like when an anxious and avoidant fall in love
• Learning presence and reworking their relationship with technology
• Creating safety in love after trauma
• The importance of repair and radical honesty
• Dream destinations, future goals, and a few delightfully weird Valentine’s Day plans
  

If you’ve ever questioned whether love can evolve, this episode is for you.

Whether you’re single, partnered, healing from heartbreak, or learning to love again—this conversation will remind you that conscious relationships are possible, and they start with you.

Click here for more ways to listen to this episode.