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What Self Love and Intimacy Has To Do With The State of America Today with Bachelorette Star Mike Johnson

by D'Arcy Benincosa

What Self Love and Intimacy Has To Do With The State Of America Today with Mike Johnson and D'Arcy Benincosa on The Play It Brave Podcast

What started as Bachelorette star, Mike Johnson’s interview about finding love turned into a vulnerable conversation about Self Love and Intimacy and how those two combined are super powers that can change the state of America. While that may sound foolish on the surface, I promise you this episode will challenge you to invite more self love and intimacy into your life so that you can truly Play It Brave and speak out for what you believe in.

About Mike Johnson:

Surviving Reality-TV fame, a deployment with the military and countless challenges throughout his life and career, Mike now writes and speaks on how the ability to overcome stems from the power within. With his focus on self-love, the breakout star from ABC’s The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise is transforming audiences by showcasing his global influence through brave storytelling and big smiles.

Self Love is not something that you ever perfect. It’s ongoing. When you can give yourself the love you deserve, you become clearer and more confident in your values without fear of judgement.

Mike’s Self Love Tips:

  1. Surround yourself with positivity
  2. Be extremely introspective on things that YOU can control
  3. Don’t focus on what you don’t have, focus on loving what you DO have.

For those of you who are staying silent or playing it safe during times when America needs you to stand up and speak out, it’s time to put your money where your mouth is. It’s time to unleash your feminine energy, it’s time to hold onto your self love, be vulnerable, and have uncomfortable conversations.

You might be asking yourself what self love and intimacy have to do with the current state of America… It has everything to do with the problems we face. If we could all just have a little more self love and intimacy, we would have a heck of a lot more peace in the world.

What Self Love Has To Do With The State of America Today:

If you can be yourself and not worry about judgement, loss of followers, or even loss of income as a result, that is a POWERFUL act of self love. It’s POWERFUL to be confident in your values without fear of shame or embarrassment.

What Intimacy Has To Do With The State of America Today:

Intimacy isn’t about sex. It’s about being vulnerable and open with people. It’s about listening and being teachable, but also being able to share what you need and want.

What really pushes you to grow is when you speak out in a room full of people who disagree with you so that you can truly see all sides of the spectrum and how things effect other people differently.

When you allow people to evolve and you don’t hold them to who they were in the beginning, that is truly a beautiful relationship. Hold space for people to change their mind.

Bottom line, don’t excuse yourself from participation in what’s going on. Your voice matters. When you love yourself enough, you have the confidence to speak up. When you have the confidence to speak up, you’re able to become more intimate with those around you and have uncomfortable conversations that could change the world. Play It Brave, my dear friends. It’s the least we can do.

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